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Letter to My Transgender Daughter

A Girlhood

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A parent's love letter to a daughter who has always known exactly who she is.

One ordinary day, a caseworker from the Department of Children and Families knocked on the Hays family's door to investigate an anonymous complaint about the upbringing of their transgender child. It was this knock, this threat, that began the family's journey out of the Bible Belt but never far from the hate and fear resting at the nation's core.

Self-aware and intimate, Letter to My Transgender Daughter asks us all to love better, not just for the sake of Hays's child but for children everywhere enduring injustice and prejudice just as they begin to understand themselves. Letter to My Transgender Daughter is a call to action, an ode to community, a plea for empathy, a hope for a better future. Letter to My Transgender Daughter is a love letter to a child who has always known exactly who she is—and who is waiting for the rest of the world to catch up.

This new edition includes key additions to the text, including a reader's discussion guide, an interview with the author, and a list of resources and links for LGBTQ+ individuals, families, and allies.

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      September 1, 2022
      Hays (a pseudonym) pens this poignant letter to her transgender daughter now reaching her teens. At a young age, Hays' youngest son showed a strong interest in dolls and female clothes, preferring to be called she. The author begins researching transgender issues and gradually lets her daughter take the lead on activities and clothing choices. This is new territory for Hays, a parent to three other children, but she, her husband, their families, friends, and school authorities are all trying to help the child find her identity. Then there is a knock on the door, and a DCFS investigator tipped by an anonymous call walks in. Hays does a wonderful job of honestly recalling the turmoil, moves, and challenges that followed as well as the unexpected aid from families and friends. Throughout the letter, she shows constant love and support for her daughter, who remains at peace with her choices. Gradually, Hays and family become eloquent advocates for the girl and the trans community. Families facing similar challenges will be comforted and inspired by this clear-eyed, love-filled tale.

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